5 Handy Tips for Women on How to Masturbate and Orgasm

Masturbation Masturbation is a wonderful way to explore your body and finding out what makes you tick. Since there is no other person involved you don’t have to do something you are not too keen on to please your partner and the best part is that there is only one person to please – YOU! The best of your orgasms will probably come from romancing yourself, so get going! It still is taboo in most societies to talk about female masturbation but that’s probably just the jealous men folk talking. So get set and go!

How to masturbate

Most women report orgasms through clitoral stimulation, though vaginal and nipple orgasms exist too. But more on that later. Let’s get down to the basics, shall we ladies? Your clitoris is the small nubbin at the intersection of the labia just above the opening of the vagina. This is the spot that has 8,000 nerve endings which connect to 15,000 more nerve endings internally and together these nerve endings are responsible for your earth shattering orgasms.

Location is important

So where do you start? Begin by finding yourself a comfortable place. It could be your bed, or your couch in front of the TV, or the floor where you can spread out comfortably, lie down or sit up as and when you need. Keeping a few pillows handy may help too.

Foreplay

Like in sex, foreplay is important in masturbation too. Explore your body, touch yourself and see which spots are more sensitive than the others, play with your nipples, and relax. Running your fingertips on areas like your stomach and the vulva also helps to relax, and begin the build up of pleasure within you. The area between the stomach and the beginning of the pelvic region is also a sensitive spot and some women feel frissons of pleasure when this area is stimulated.

Stimulation of the clitoris

Since a majority of women report having an orgasm by clitoral stimulation, knowing how to flick your bean is important. You could go with any motion – circular, up and down, the pendulum motion or even the diagonal motion. Every woman is different, and everyone has her own trigger point. Keep exploring till you find your own pleasure point and your favorite rhythm. When you find it keep doing in, varying the pressure and speed at intervals. The pointer and the middle finger work the best. Rub the insides of your labia for variation and added stimulation.

Use a vibrator

Some women love using the rabbit vibrator or clitoral stimulators that provide a steady rhythm to take you over the edge of pleasure. You could also use a combination of egg vibrators and a G Spot vibe for an explosive orgasm.

Lube up

If you are not lubricating naturally at first, then try a mild water based lubricant to smoothen things up. You could of course use your natural juices to moisten your labia and use the lubrication for heightened pleasures.
Remember it is not a test, and not cumming the first few times is perfectly ok. Your goal should be relaxation and exploration of your own erogenous zones, and it is ok not to experience orgasm. Once you are comfortable with your body receiving pleasure, the muscles will learn to clench and relax on their own, giving you deliciously pleasurable orgasms.

The key is to practice. The more you practice, the more you will get comfortable with yourself. Your orgasms will get better with practice.

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