How to Use Vibrators in Partner Sex

Rabbit Vibrator

Vibrators are amazing things. They can be plugged in, fired up with a battery or two, and even recharged for satiating use whenever you are alone or with a partner. Moreover a vibe is your one true friend who will always be ready when you need it. Unless of course if the battery hasn’t died from overuse during your last masturbathon or the charge hasn’t run out. Vibes come in different sizes, with a few variations in the shape department, for reasons that are not so unfathomable.

While many women use vibes to masturbate, the number dwindles when it comes to using it while you are with your partner. Most times, the vibe stays put in the bottom drawer of the nightstand when you are getting all hot and heavy with your partner. But ladies, it’s time to introduce your friend-in-need to your SO. And it’s time for some rock n roll between the three of you. If this isn’t an awesome threesome, we don’t know what else is! (Wink. Just kidding, we of course know what else can be a threesome, but more of that some other day!)

Break the ice and get all three of you going in bed. Here are a few sex positions you can include your vibrator in, even with your partner.

Tried and Tested Missionary

Though there are variations to the missionary, we’ll stick to the conventional one. This position demands a vibe that will pleasure both partners. Some vibrators are meant for couple use, like the WE-Vibe couple vibrators, which can easily be slipped in between the two of you. The dual motors will take care of both internal and external pleasure, and penetration is possible even with the vibe buzzing inside the woman.

Feisty Cowgirl

 The Cowgirl or the Woman on Top position calls for an external stimulator that will pleasure both partners. Take a bow, clitoral vibrators. These feisty little vibes come in small and large sizes, though the smaller ones are best used between two people. They are unobtrusive, come in the smallest of sizes – the lipstick and bullet variations – and most of them are whisper quiet. Your neighbor on the other side of the wall doesn’t need to know you are getting adventurous in bed.

Adventurous Doggy Style

 This one is one of the guys’ favorites, for they get the desired angle and can control the speed as well. This is less vanilla and more on the wild side. Also this position puts the man in a position of power where they can manoeuvre the action according to their liking. (Psst, the girls tell us they like it too!) Finger vibrators that can be attached to your pointers are the best bet for sex in this position. Your partner can concentrate on your clitoris or any other erogenous zone he feels like. Let your imagination run wild and explore the vibrator types in this position.

Vibrators they say can be a girl’s BFF. Don’t be afraid to explore with your partner and let your imagination guide you.